Relationships are about commitment and sharing. It’s about showing their love for each other and learning everything there is to know about each other. They must be open and stay on top of everything. Relationships are also about attraction and sex. It takes a lot to maintain a marriage, and that includes great sex. Learn how to spice things up in the bedroom and make your marriage even stronger.
Variety is key when it comes to having sex with the same person day after day. If you have sex the exact same way every time, it will quickly get boring. You have to be willing to try new things. Start with a variety of positions at first. When you’ve tried every position in the book, new locations can be a fun way to keep things exciting. Have sex all over the house, and if you’re really adventurous, try public places like outdoors. Always use discretion when having sex in public.
Like I said before, variety is the salt and pepper of a relationship. You have to be willing to spice things up to keep the same flavor from becoming bland. All kitchen puns aside, you really should consider mixing it up with your partner. A great way to do this is to make sweet, cuddly love from time to time. Other times she fucks like crazy. Be ruthless and go absolutely wild. Don’t plan how you’re going to do it, just let the heat of the moment carry you. By being impulsive, your sex life will become more exciting than you ever remembered.
Don’t be afraid to let your partner take control and vice versa. It can be very exciting to take on a role that you are not used to. Letting your girl take complete control will be really different. She will make her feel empowered and chances are she will turn you on too.
Don’t worry so much about things that are taboo. If something really turns you on, let your partner know you want to try it. A lot of people consider things like Anal and BDSM taboo, but if you’re in a close relationship with someone, they should be open to trying those kinds of things with you. Be brave and broach the subject, worst case scenario they say no and move on. Most of the time they will be happy to help you live out your fantasy and you will become even closer.
Monogamous sex is all about variety and adventure. Take the leap and try new things. You may find that you like some things that you never thought you would like.