You are probably reading this article because you are in a relationship that is on the brink of destruction or even worse; It has already imploded! First let me say that I have been there before so I can totally relate to your heartache and pain. Many people, just like you, seek advice for relationship breakup problems because they are looking for help to mend the breakup!
Breakup mending or just basic relationship advice can go a long way if used the right way! Yes, there is a right way to take your breakup mending information and start the process of trying to mend your broken relationship.
Correcting deficiencies in a relationship is not as easy as putting a patch on a flat tire. We as humans are filled with many incredible emotions that can affect the end result of our efforts to mend breakups and restore emotions.
*That’s why the first step is a meeting of minds, either over the phone or in person. In most cases, in person is best. In this meeting of the minds it is basically an outing of thoughts and a moment in which each person explains (non-stop) where they think things went wrong in the relationship. This IS NOT a blame game session!
*Right at this point, people better get ready to LOWER their damn egos and say the words “SORRY!” And don’t you dare come up with that weak, pathetic one-word phrase that most people say goes like this… “sorry”! That totally sucks! It’s “I’m sorry!” To make it even better, I’m sorry for the specific thing you’re apologizing for.
All I’m saying is be specific and take full ownership by saying the words “I am” before the word sorry.
So this is where you’re trying to get at with all of this; you are trying to find common ground that you can use as a platform to rebuild your broken relationship.
*Determine if both of you are willing to grow and improve personally, so you can make this work for the long term. Now, I should point out that this requires work and study, so you should consider an eBook or course on relationship saving that you can refer to right away to access the knowledge that will be available to guide you through the process.
Now, keep in mind that one thing about any kind of advice or advice on relationship breakup problems is that in order for it to be truly effective, you have to be fully committed to applying what you are learning. This is not the time to turn back!
They say that most relationship problems and breakups can be fixed or could have been prevented if people communicated. This is one of the most powerful lessons in rebuilding relationships. And many of the relationship-saving ebooks available today cover this topic quite aggressively!
Most importantly, both of you, if you want all of this to work, have to put your whole heart into the new information and continue to implement it for lasting success.
Fight for your relationship! Save your relationship and start today!
I’m here cheering you on, Big-Time!