It may feel like the hardest thing you could do right now is to let your ex go and give them space, but this is a critical step in the process of getting your ex back. Too many times, after a breakup, couples drift apart and walk out of their lives forever simply because they don’t have the inner strength to take a deep breath and walk away.
No couple breaking up is cool, calm and collected, and the mutual breakup is more of a “myth” and urban legend than anything else. No matter the reasons for a breakup, having the person you love leave you forever can be one of the hardest things you’ll ever go through, but it doesn’t have to be permanent if you play your cards right.
Why You Should Give Your Ex Space To Get Your Ex Back
No breakup is final and that’s why it’s imperative that you give your ex space to collect their thoughts, this includes time for you to see exactly why your relationship ended.
It’s no good yelling, yelling, and begging your ex to accept you back right now, even though he might give in and give your relationship another chance, it will do little to repair and heal your relationship to keep you both together.
You can’t pick up where you left off
You must accept the fact that your relationship is over for the time being. The relationship you remember is dead, but that doesn’t mean you can’t get your ex back, it just means the path it ended on should be avoided and a new chapter should begin.
Avoid harassing your ex
Don’t be afraid to stop calling your ex for fear of losing them forever, nothing will drive an ex away faster than someone clingy and desperate. Give your ex space, be mature, respect and always remember that you will get him back using your head more than your heart right now. Get your ex back by being the bigger person.