As hard as it may be to accept, there will be times in your life when the person you like, love, or care for decides, for whatever reason, that they no longer want to be with you. Whether it’s the “let’s be friends” speech, the “I think we should take a break” line, the “I need to recover” talk, the “you’re too good for me” excuse, the “I’m not ready for a relationship after Whether they beat her up and got sick of her or just cut off all communication leaving you to conclude that the two of you are not together anymore, there is one thing you must do if you are to grow as a balanced adult with self-respect and dignity, Let Them Walk.
No dramatic scenes, no takedowns, prolonged fights, no asking why can’t we figure it out a thousand times, no blowing up your phone and leaving half-crazy, barely coherent messages, none of that. Just take a deep breath, control yourself, tell them how you feel, acknowledge what you got from your time together, and let them go without flinching.
You see, the problem is that when you hold on to someone who doesn’t want to be with you or isn’t willing to make you a top priority in their lives or treats you less than you deserve, you let yourself down and stop. of God’s best. You may even be thinking that the person who dumped you was the best thing since sliced bread, but if that were true, the two of you would now be in a happy, healthy, and supportive relationship. Good? Good.
Maybe it’s a matter of time. You know how they say… right person, wrong time. Well, if that’s the case, then the thing to do is give the person who wants to end the relationship all the time he needs, backing off completely and moving on with your life. If it’s meant to be, then along the way as you continue with your life and make yourself happy, the universe will find a way to bring the two of you together. If not, then you will meet someone even better. So you can’t really lose by letting people who want out of your life keep walking. And here’s the most important part about moving on: the only way to fully move on is to keep it moving without looking back, not to tie yourself back and forth in relationship limbo, or worse, reduce yourself to a built-in booty call on demand.
So, for those of you who are on the receiving end of a breakup, my question is… When the person you love, like, or care for wants to leave your life, will you give up your self-esteem?… .or Will you acknowledge the lessons learned, take them for what they’re worth, and let them go so you can move on to bigger and better things? It’s your life, just my opinion on the subject. Remember – You have the pen that writes the chapters of your life.