One of the things that often happens when a relationship breaks up is that one or the other or both people are desperately trying to get back together. This is extremely common and trying to get the relationship back on track through desperate measures based on desperate reactions is one of the main reasons why a relationship sometimes remains broken.
If you find yourself in a position where you are trying to get your ex girlfriend back, you can avoid this catastrophe of despair by employing a little patience. Patience with yourself, patience with her, and patience with the process of getting back together.
Instead of pleading and pleading with him and telling him you will do this or that, take a step back. He tries not to think about the situation until his nerves and emotions have calmed down. In this way, you will be able to see things from a much clearer point of view and the actions you take will seem much more sincere.
There is that old saying that patience is a virtue and that is doubly true in situations like this. If you want your ex girlfriend back, you don’t want her to feel pressured, guilty, or any other negative feelings. This is another positive aspect of being patient and calm in your emotions and actions: it will help you avoid the possibility of her associating you with even more negativity.
More than anything, patience also shows that you care about her. Whereas losing your cool and emotionally ranting just shows that the only person you care about is you and this only leads down one path and it’s not the same path with her on it. The more you show that you really care about her and the two of you, instead of just yourself, the further you’ll get.
So give it a try because there is one thing for sure and that is that patience will do a lot more good than harm and when you have decided that you want to get your ex girlfriend back, the more good you can bring to the picture the better your chances.