My mom always told me that love comes naturally, that relationships require work. You can love someone, but not be compatible with him. But, if you are in love with another person and you love them with everything you have, then compatibility should accompany that love. Love includes so many different things. A wise man once told me that if I wanted to stay with the person I love with all my heart, I would remember the word “luck” forever. Love, understanding, compassion and kindness.
These last few months I have fallen in love. And now that I’m in love, I want to do everything I can to make it work and last forever. “Luck” is the first thing I thought, then trust and communication. You must completely trust your spouse. If you don’t, you shouldn’t be with them or you have trust issues. If there is communication, there will never be confusion or anger that builds up over time and eventually causes an explosion of emotions. That is never good. Also, engaged. (up to a point) You should know what that grade is.
No two people in this world are exactly the same and you will never find someone “perfect”. However, I think you will find someone you should be with. They will balance each other, and that in itself is perfection. You will love that person despite their imperfections. Your love for them is so strong that even their flaws don’t seem like flaws to you. Maybe just … happy little accidents.
Relationships take work and must be maintained. Don’t get lazy just because you feel comfortable. Finding that comfort zone can be a hit or miss situation. I think you should stay with someone for years before you finally get married, because when you say good or bad, you have to mean good or bad. I never want to get divorced.
My advice is keep it exciting and that you can always laugh at yourself. Always think of new ideas, new ways of doing things, surprises and take care of your spouse and vice versa. If you can laugh together until you both can barely breathe, I think you might have something special. Smiles Last but most important, pray together and thank God for each other. This is all just my opinion, but I am so sorry! Here are some other sites that can help …