Women are truly selfless creatures who care more for those around them than for themselves. This is the way women were built and the foundation on which women mature. It is this attitude that makes women incredible lovers in the bedroom. Having a partner who cares more about their own pleasure and satisfaction than their own is a very attractive and highly sought after quality. You already possess this quality but you lack it when it comes to others.
Are you a woman who feels that you are not enough for your man? Do you turn around after sex and criticize your performance, thinking that there is so much more you can about it? Do you feel that you are holding back and that you are afraid of giving him everything that you are really capable of? If this sounds like you, then it’s time you got the confidence boost you’ve been looking for. You want to learn how to be a better lover for your man and you are going to learn how to do it today.
Working on your confidence and your sexual skills is easy when you have something to go on. That’s why using new sexual positions can give you the boost you’ve been looking for. Foreplay is intricate just like oral sex, so using sex as a way to be a better lover for your man is the easiest way to go.
You and your man are probably veterans in the sack when it comes to missionary, cowgirl, and doggy positions. These are the three staples that most couples use in their sex lives. Breaking down with these three and looking outside the box is weird, but it’s something you’re going to do. If you really want to send your man over the edge and solidify yourself as one of the best lovers he’s ever had, then these positions are a must for you.
The Scissor: This position is a lot like the missionary position, but the angle at which it penetrates you is life-changing. Start on your back near the edge of a bed or on a flat surface high enough to match your waist. He will stand in front of you and enter you that way. Then you will put your legs at a 90 degree angle against his chest and he will be free to move your legs like a scissors. This may not sound like much, but wait until it happens to you and to him. When he moves your legs this way, he opens you up one minute, allowing him to hit your G-spot and then the next, he seals you, allowing your PC muscles to grip into him making it so tight for him. He may take over the reign in a sense, but really you are the one with all the power, using your pelvic region to please him in an incredible way. Just wait until you both experience an orgasm with this position.
The spoon: You are probably used to this position in terms of cuddling, but have you ever used it for sex? You don’t have to work too hard in this position and neither of you will get fatigued, allowing you to go longer and maximize pleasure. Start by lying on your side on the bed and have your man come up behind you, looking in the same direction as you. Spread your legs and lean your hips back toward him. Now, you can be in control and move your hips over him, use your hands to grab him from behind, and even whisper sexy things into his ear. You are free to roam your hands all over your body, including your breasts and even down to your clitoris. Feeling filling you, in addition to being able to touch you, will send it to the limit.
What are you waiting for? It’s time for you and your man to try out these unique sex positions tonight so you both can relight the fire. You are an amazing lover and your man thinks so too. Time to give yourself some credit.