You see a beautiful girl and you may wonder how you can tell if she is a virgin. The truth is that there is no way to know if she is a virgin. However, over the years, many misconceptions and silly myths have been spread that claim that you can tell if a girl is a virgin or not. Supposedly, you can tell if she is a virgin because she will lack that certain non-virgin aspect. What surprises many is that most of the “signs” that she is a virgin are not very dependent:
A common myth that people attribute to virginity is that your breasts change after sex. For example, some claim that their breasts point out more or that one of them might be fatter because he hasn’t had sex yet. One possible source of this belief is the change that occurs when a woman is pregnant or reaches puberty but, outside of these contexts, such transformations are entirely fictitious. Many of these myths date back to times when people were more concerned with a woman’s virginity remaining intact and used physical differences as an excuse to label certain women as whores. Seriously guys, how are you going to have sex to make your breasts more symmetrical? The human body is not perfectly symmetrical. In fact, when people are shown faces that are a mirror image of only one side of the face, they freak out. We’re not drawn to perfect symmetry, so enjoy the little quirks in a person’s appearance, they’re what make them unique.
Similarly, people have falsely pointed to other physical changes as evidence. Somehow, people have related flat backs to sex. This one is just ridiculous, as as women get older, many gain a bit more swag. When a girl loses her virginity, she doesn’t transform into a new body, she just has had sex. Similarly, clear and bright urine has been pointed to as proof of virginity. Gentlemen, an important point to review here. Neither virgins nor non-virgins are bottles of champagne. If a woman really does have bright urine, she needs to go to the doctor as soon as possible.
My favorite myths have to do with appearance. You might hear a friend say that women have that sexy “Certain Kind of Look” when they haven’t been deflowered. Some even go so far as to suggest specific details such as the girl losing hair on her eyebrows. There is a grain of truth in this myth. A woman who has had sex can radiate a more sexual vibe, something that is not really possible for people who have never experienced sexuality. But it is quite possible to have experienced a lot of sexual passion without actually having sex. Her hymen might be intact, but she might still radiate that sex kitten vibe.
Similarly, changes in places like the eyebrows probably have nothing to do with sexual activity and everything to do with grooming. When a girl is sexually active or thinking about becoming sexually active, she will begin to pay more attention to her appearance. One of the first things they do is go get their eyebrows plucked. There’s nothing stopping a girl with one eyebrow from having a lot of sex. Also, naturally thin eyebrows are genetic and have nothing to do with having sex for the first time.
Finally, the latest sets of misconceptions revolve around a girl’s hymen. One of the most unfounded myths is that the way a girl walks changes when her hymen breaks. This rumor started because many girls who ride horses break their hymen while riding, so even though they are still virgins, they don’t look like it. The way she walks with her legs farther apart is a side effect of riding a horse, nothing more. One of the most true misconceptions is that a virgin will bleed when she has sex for the first time. While this is often the case, it is not always true. When a girl has sex for the first time, her hymen, the thin membrane that covers the opening of a woman’s vagina, will be torn by the penetration of an erect penis, assuming it hasn’t been torn by some other activity. sexual. When the hymen breaks, she bleeds. But many activities can tear the hymen, cycling, ballet, horseback riding, and many more. It is even possible for a hymen to break as a result of a car accident.
Only a doctor can truly confirm virginity by stating the presence of an intact hymen. A doctor can tell if this hymen was torn by a penetrating penis or by excessive exercise.
So what’s the BEST way to find out if you’re a virgin? ASK AND EXPECT AN HONEST ANSWER!
But truth be told, you should be asking yourself if it really matters if he’s a virgin or not. The biggest myth about virginity is that being a virgin or a non-virgin says something about who a person is, but it doesn’t. Having sex doesn’t change you in any way, but it does open your eyes to a whole new world of experiences.