Dating younger women has its pros and cons. If you’re an older guy (I’m 28 and have dated hot girls ages 19-21), or if you’re one of my friends who’s in their 30s-40s, then you probably already know this. the professionals.
Advantages:
They are a great treat for the arm and a “reminder” that you still have it. I’m not quite there yet, but I’ve dated some really hot tall girls who know how to strut. It’s really an ego boost if you think about it.
They are easy to lead: Most young women are easy to lead and ask to do things. If you’re a guy dating a younger girl, you know what I’m talking about. When one of my clients had one of hers, she cleaned the house, cooked the food, and gave him lots of sex at random times of the day. All with the push of her command button.
Cons:
They can be immature and erratic – as an older man, you SHOULD NOT try to give a younger woman advice. Remember that most of his immaturity episodes are natural, and you should pay attention and leave it at that. Going against it or giving advice won’t help the cause and he might even get mad at you for it. Just tell him “hey, you’ll manage, I believe in you.” and that is.
Some younger women may be dating other men; if you’re playing the field, then realize she might be too, especially if she’s young and attractive. If you’re the jealous type, don’t enter this arena. But she understands that she has more access to the boys. Hey, she’s fine. If you are reading this guide and checking out my main site, you will have more women to date.
Either way, if you’re a total gamer like me, then you still would. That is how:
Young women are on the hunt
Keep this in mind. Young women, in the early stages of their adult lives, are HUNGRY. They are hungry for activities, date more men and learn more about the world. When you adopt this mindset, you’ll be dating MORE young women at once instead of concentrating on just one. Let me repeat: date more young women and not just one.
Young women are all about having fun
Embrace a part of your identity that is silly, fun, and comfortable under your own skin. You don’t want to look tight and too “above” younger women by appearing boxy. Now, even if you ARE a square, the good thing is that you can surprise her from time to time by letting loose and goofing around. When you show women a surprise dimension like that, they tend to appreciate it because they can see that you’re trying.
It’s also imperative that you keep up with pop culture. If you don’t know what the Jersey Shore is, then you need a refresher. Younger women “connect” strongly with men at this level. It’s not even about being funny or humorous or being flirty, it’s just knowing what’s “in” in your world that counts. What I usually do is look at Facebook and see what’s out there, and just pass it on to women.
Women also engage in fun activities. Instead of suggesting dinner as a date, I suggest you do more RANDOM things, like an unexpected out-of-town road trip, or a surprise movie premiere at midnight, or a weekend wine tasting. Anything that is totally fun, random, and unstructured really hits younger women hard.
Young Women Want to Be Leaders
I cannot stress this enough. You must lead lead and lead. Don’t ask him what he wants to do next. 99.99% of the time THEY HAVE NO GAME PLAN when it comes to dates or events. Being the older guy with the most connections, you can set the dates on time and make it convenient for her. Just tell her to show up at X time and X place. If she gets discouraged for any reason, don’t get mad. Young women are erratic, remember? But what matters is that you don’t give power to her court.
Younger women don’t have any strong core values installed
Try to go somewhere quiet with her, where there are few distractions, like walking near the shoreline or hanging out at her house having a few drinks, and SHARE your core beliefs, life goals, and whatnot. INSPIRE HER. Don’t tell your dreams sarcastically. You must fascinate her with your plans. Older men tend to downplay this and don’t put any energy into talking about themselves. Do the opposite. She is a dreamer and if she shows her that you are too… she is very relatable and that is VERY ATTRACTIVE.
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