Losing a loved one is a heartbreaking experience.
to say the least.
Though finding the strength to carry on with one’s own
life after such an experience takes time, it can be
done.
Gratitude is wonderful to help overcome
complain. Be thankful for the love you had, the
experiences you shared, what you currently have
in your life, and what will be in the future.
The tighter the connection, the more difficult it will be
separation, but it helps to realize that everyone has
more than one soul mate. Some are more compatible
than others, but they are all meant to go in and out of your
life when they do, which means all relationships seem
be spiritually contracted, including the length of time
to spend together. Expectations of “growing old”
couples are the norm in our society, but in
many cases it is not meant to be.
As we wrote in our book Your love life and
Reincarnation, published in 2002, almost all
relationships include karmic ties. In other words,
one person owes the other, they both owe each other
and their connection is necessary for growth and
refund, or a similar situation exists. maybe there is
unfinished business or the two agreed souls, before
embody, come together to learn some lessons or
achieve a certain goal.
For someone grieving the loss of a loved one,
I would like to suggest a new perspective. On our November 10,
2006 column titled Redefining How You Perceive the New
Love interests, we recommend watching love interests
as growth opportunities and allowing them to be
what they are meant to be, instead of all or nothing, or
assuming they will be “the one” for life. such perspective
relieves the difficulty of accepting what is and what is
be, that which you cannot change.
The loss can be devastating, but at least with this
perspective, it can be easier to digest when you don’t
work as “it should have”. Although that seems
deflate romantic notions of forever, knowing that love
it really is forever on a spiritual level, not on this physical one
flat. It is useful to see the progression of the soul in lives,
not just one existence, as each soul has an agenda that
spreads over time.
That leads us to the popular phrase, “love of your
life.” Maybe “the love of your life so far” or “one of the
loves of your life” are much more appropriate since
Haven’t you lived your whole life and known everyone
Potential love interests yet. This way of thinking does
do not diminish what you had with past loves since each
relationship is different, and you may have a lot to
wait regardless of your age.
Is a lost love destined? It’s feeling a deep sense of loss
a natural part of personal destiny? We think so, since
the complete tables of astrology and numerology
clearly indicate unions and separations, among others
circumstances. Most experience the loss of love in one
time or other. It could be someone they didn’t know
that good, someone with whom they were involved
for years, or even someone with whom they are still involved
but the spark has died for one or both.
From a spiritual perspective, feel a sense of loss.
Serves any number of purposes, including but not
limited to the following: allows you to appreciate
plus what you had (and will have again); that allows
to experience firsthand the cyclical nature of life;
and in some cases, can even allow you to balance
the scales of karma for the loss that others experienced
due to their actions in the past. but don’t feel guilty
about the possibility of negative past life actions such as
as long as you are “doing the right thing” in all
situations of this life.
For those who lost a love that might have seemed
“the one”, even though you never had the chance to
come together, this kind of loss of love can also be
annoying, especially if there is a strong past life
Connection. Maybe you put up and spent time together
at work or on vacation. Although the connection has
runs its course, you still think a lot about the person.
However, if they had spent more time together,
may have realized that the person only represented
what you wanted or felt you needed in your love life.
“What could have been” may have been more of a
fancy. The time we spent together was all that it was
intended to be, for now, perhaps in part to promote
establish a link to continue in a much deeper
level next time. Remember, the spiritual
the reasons for the events in your life may seem illogical,
and the predestined outcome is often at odds with the plans,
expectations and hopes.
For those who lost a very compatible and rewarding
relationship, past life regression is a great tool for
return to a life in which you were also together in
a love relationship, and even to a future life
(through future progression) when you will have the
opportunity to love again. it will also help
to calm your mind and your heart to realize that this life is
just apart from a long tapestry of love.
For those who had to leave a relationship due to
dangerous circumstances, such as abuse, alcoholism
or drugs, but you still can’t seem to let the person go,
cut the spiritual ties that bind you. consciously and visually
surround yourself with white light, cut any rope
connect to you and the other person, and fill the void
places where the ropes were with White Light. Do
this daily until you feel the effects and ask for spiritual help.
help in the process, from whomever you pray. Let
Get rid of them and any anger as best you can.
Forgiveness will heal you and help you move on.
Every relationship is different and although
grieving for a lost love is not easy, know that there is
may be a future lover waiting in the wings for a
relationship that is even better than ever
imagined But insist on “what could have been”
or its loss will not help usher in a happier life
future.
Also know that, based on past life regression
investigation, you have probably loved hundreds of times
or more in the hundreds, if not thousands (or many
more) from past lives. It is also possible that you
be with that person in a future life, one way or another
another, when the moment is better for both of them.
In the meantime, let this person go as best you can.
they can. This will not free their memory from
your life or the possibility of being together again,
but remove them as a potential blockage in your
current love life
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