I was watching this new show the other day called “Fashion House” and I couldn’t help but notice the beautiful actress named Michelle Miller, her real name is Natalie Martinez. Natalie plays a sexy clothing designer going through a stressful divorce. A wealthy young man, who could have any girls he wanted, becomes obsessed with Michelle (Natalie). He knows her, she likes her, but she quickly realizes that he is nervous. Natalie asks him “Why are you nervous?” This puts him in a bind, but he tells her the right thing and ends up going on a date with her.
Here’s some insight from this Miami born Cuban goddess Natalie Martinez… here’s what the hottie said…
“I have to get the whole point of the guy to turn me on, to really like him. I like someone who is motivated and is really dedicated to something.” -Natalia Martinez
Natalie Martinez has previously been featured in Maxim and Stuff Magazine. Take a moment to take a look at it…your eyes will thank you! Trust me.
Let’s take a brief look at some of the things that prevent a man from successfully communicating with a beautiful girl:
Boring her: Trying not to screw things up, guys will (sometimes unknowingly) talk about things like the weather, their job, or sports. He will kill her with these questions and next time she will avoid him altogether.
Talking too much: Some guys keep talking like there’s no tomorrow to get a girl’s attention. This is common with guys who lack social experience and is an obvious sign of being nervous.
Asking Too Many Questions: There’s nothing wrong with adding a few questions to a flowing conversation. However, there is nothing worse than suffering that strange and always uncomfortable embarrassing silence. The boys will ask question after question to avoid this painful experience, the silence. Attacking her with a bunch of questions will leave a negative impression on her mind and turn her off instantly. Again, this shows that the guy is nervous and not a skilled communicator at all.
I remember this guy saying things to girls that scared them to death! One day, while she was talking to other friends, her name came up and the girl had a less than favorable opinion of him. She said that he was too strong and too aggressive. When I talked to this guy, I noticed that he got angry easily, like I was a chip on his shoulder. Girls talk about things like that and negativity spreads like wildfire, and it’s no surprise that this man’s love life comes to a complete halt.
With the right knowledge, nervousness can be overcome. The fear is lack of knowledge and with the right delivery method, strategies, you will be more confident. Learning exactly what to say with the power of persuasion is extremely effective. Michelle, Natalie Martinez is her real name, was very impressed with the boy’s interest in her. She used her power of persuasion, even when on her date she said that she wanted to take it easy. Despite telling her that he was also willing to take it easy, she knew deep down inside that she was going to be his.
Imagine this scene: you are falling in love with a very beautiful sexy girl and she seems to like you. You can see that she is having fun with the conversation and you can feel the sexual tension. You want to make something happen, but at the same time you don’t want to mess up something you just created. You don’t want her to run away scared and you don’t want to join the rejection club. To get the woman you have to give a very good reason to date.
Now let’s take a look and see why we can have so much fun with this! When you follow up afterwards (number exchange, coffee meeting, etc.) with a legitimate reason to do so, you’re making a very easy decision for her. Maybe you want to meet in this cozy place or just want to chat about something fascinating. You extend the offer and make it seem tempting and natural for the woman to say yes. If she uses words like “then” and “because,” she is simply endorsing her suggestion. Shall we go to the cafeteria and talk about your favorite band? Just smile as you say it and let it flow naturally.
There are literally thousands of different ways that you can use to meet girls, for example: you can use your pick-up technique at the park on your dog. He seduces girls by asking for help. Try to find your feminine side so you can get into hers. You can seduce her and pick her up at the supermarket. We don’t have enough time to go into all the techniques here as more details will be explained in my book “How to Date Women Out of Your Range”. Let me ask you, now that you have hot girls sitting down with you over a cup of coffee, what are you going to say next?