The truth is, it is possible to feel good after a breakup, if you know what to do and how to think about it. What most women don’t realize is that there is a huge difference between being alone and feeling alone. If you have a really good philosophy of life, you will never really feel lonely, even if you are alone at certain times in your life. Wayne Dyer once said that “if you knew … if you knew who walked by your side, at all times, on this path you have chosen, you will never experience fear again.” On the other hand, you could have a lot of people around you and still feel lonely. So it’s not really the actual situation that makes us feel alone. It’s the way we think and the things we focus our attention on. As a result, some women feel lonely when they are single, while others feel free. What does that mean? Well, it means that loneliness is a state of mind.
While it is true that you are single, you may feel good or bad about it. You may think you are alone or not. Have you ever met a woman who felt amazing despite being temporarily single? Didn’t her way of being and feeling the attention of the men around her attract? You see, such a woman knows the secrets of feeling good being single and that is irresistible for a real man. She is saying without words that she is an independent woman, that she has her life in common, that she does not need a man to feel good (although she may want him in her life) and that it is a pleasure to be around. Here are two secret things you can do after a breakup to feel good while temporarily single.
The first has to do with what you focus on and here is a universal law: if you think about the things you had in your ex relationship, you will have a deep sense of loss, because you no longer have them; If you focus on who you were before the relationship and realize how far you’ve come in terms of understanding, strategies, and experience, you will have a sense of personal evolution. Remember that you could have been alone (like many other women) instead of having the relationship and missing all the lessons and experiences that went along with it.
The second secret is to participate in a process of learning everything you need to know to become a relationship expert. Learning social arts like attracting, seducing, and reading people will boost your confidence and open doors that are forever closed to most women. Here’s the magic: Anticipating what you’ll be able to do when you’ve mastered this area of your life will make you feel incredibly good while you’re in the learning process. In this day and age, all the information you need is readily available, so it’s not “can you?” It’s “do you want?”